Breaking up has never been easy. Sometimes you look at the whole thing and you feel that you really want to be back together with your ex. But before you rush off trying to get your ex back, there are certain things that you should consider and do first.

First of all, what is/are the reason that has causes the breakup? What is/are the problem that has resulted in this situation? How can you solve the issue? Is it your fault or your ex? If the fault lies in you, be prepared to admit it and apologize for it. You would need to know what are the causes for the breakup and also how you can solve the problems before you approach your ex.

After you have identify the above, approach your ex to talk it through and try to resolve the problems. If your ex is willing to sit down and talk things through, that is good. But if your ex is not ready to talk to you just yet, not to worry. Give your ex some space to cool down before you approach your ex again.

During this time when your ex is cooling down, refrain from calling and smsing your ex non stop. I know you missed your ex and would like to talk to your ex. Instead of pulling your ex closer to you, this will just push your ex even further away from you. Why is that so? The thing is, if you keep calling your ex non-stop or smsing, it will appear that you are very clingy and needy. You don’t want to look that. It will annoy your ex when they needed some time and space to cool off a bit. So go about your daily routines and leave your ex alone for a while.

Take this as a time for you to catch up with your friends. Go through your phone book and arrange for meet ups with your friends. They will be there to give you support through this period.

You can also take up a new hobby. Before you might be too busy and not have the time for hobby. Now is a good time to learn something that you have always wanted to. Take this as an opportunity to enrich yourself.

During this period of time, you would want to take good care of yourself, especially your image. Eat and rest well. Go for a new hair cut and also get yourself some new clothing. Well, you must be wondering why would you even want to do that when you are just not in the mood. The reason is simple. 1st of all, it will make you look good and you will feel more confident. Another reason is, you don’t want to run into your ex or your ex friends looking really terrible, would you? So take good care of yourself, eat and rest well and take care of your dressing.

Wanting to be back together with your ex is possible. But you would need to be patient. When your ex have cool down, you can approach your ex to see how you can work out the problems together. Meantime, just be patient and apply the advise above. Take care and talk to you soon.